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Sep 8Liked by Beth Riungu

"When I first spilled out into the world, an uncoiling of slippery hopefulness, the hands that caught me were Joan’s." What a fantastic visual! Your writing is amazing. 🤩 Joan's story makes me a little sad. It's sad to think her whole family is gone. I hope she experienced happiness. Love your photos! You can post your photos here and we can witness them for you.

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I know Joan and her family experienced happiness -- and so much love! Mine and my family's lives were surely not the only lives they touched and I like to think about who else might remember them.

And thanks for what you write about the photos and witnessing. I hadn't thought of that and it's beautiful!

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Sep 8·edited Sep 8Liked by Beth Riungu

My husband once told me that he felt lucky to be able to witness my life. I never forgot that. It’s such a deep form of love, to do that for another person.

So even though we don’t really know each other, I think witnessing your photos is a way to show that what you say about them, what they mean to you and the memories they represent to you — all of that matters.

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Your husband sounds like the most wonderful man, how lovely to have that loving support in your life! 💕🤍🌸🤍💕

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Sep 9Liked by Beth Riungu

He is and I’m super lucky! 😍

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Such a heartfelt journal, thank you Beth for sharing it with us. I'm hoping there are other anchors to steady your memory like the castle in this one.. I loved the little vignettes of life with Joan while so much was swirling around you as a young child. I'm glad your mother and your whole family had such a good friend.

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I am fortunate to have anchors in many forms, and even though Joan isn't with us anymore, true friends are the constants I value most.

Thanks for reading my story, Leslie, and for your kind response.

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Beautiful writing and so interesting , very much enjoyed

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Thanks, Margo! I’m so glad you enjoyed it 😊

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Sep 8Liked by Beth Riungu

That ballet dress is stunning! Your mother was very talented

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Mum made the bridesmaid's dress too -- talented indeed! :)

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Gorgeous writing, Beth. Glad to be along for the journey.

And can you please write more pieces that involves that Scottish accent so we can hear you speak it again? 😄

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